It is a good sign now that everywhere you go you might find a feedback/complain box but it's not a great sight to always find such boxes empty.
We don't have a voice culture, we don't believe that our voice is powerful may b it all ends at the government weakening our voice over the years. So I believe we should provide our feedback till we overwhelm them with all the negative or positive(if any) feedback.
So even when a waiter provide u with a feedback form you are bound to fill it & give ur honest opinion, it's ur duty towards ur ownself.
Talking about providing a true constructive opinion not based on emotions is another issue. Let's speak out our voices first.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Walking Angels
The say some people have more angelic or devilish parts in them. How do you spot walking angels or devilish hearts?..I tell u..Sometimes angels seem to trouble you or get on your nerves but when they leave you..they leave you with an everlasting smile.
Devils can charm you and deceive much but they never ever leave u with a good memory to hold on to, but they don't know that since they r not 100% pure devily, their other small merciful part control them into being a sad passing moment..no more.
So ask yourself after that person left, did u feel good or bad afterwords..this is how you know for sure. Don't worry if you passed many devils you won't remember their existence in a jiffy.
Devils can charm you and deceive much but they never ever leave u with a good memory to hold on to, but they don't know that since they r not 100% pure devily, their other small merciful part control them into being a sad passing moment..no more.
So ask yourself after that person left, did u feel good or bad afterwords..this is how you know for sure. Don't worry if you passed many devils you won't remember their existence in a jiffy.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
The Woman Cause
I don't know why did the woman cause turn into a fight or a war against men?!..It's been like this for ages & I always wondered who took the cause into that sloppy turn?! and to be fair it's not a war against men or their beliefs, it can be against women's traditional thoughts and propriety upbringing.
I kinda think it's a man's conspiracy to occupy us with the ongoing fight for women rights instead of us focusing on our own improvement and self-proving process.
Through many encounters I do believe that our cause is basically with women upbringing itself & it is related to women not to men, owing to the fact that we do spend more time with children. Women tend to raise their own girls the same way they were brought which is a major mistake. You will always find mothers discriminating between a boy and a girl, for example in the daily chorus, a boy is not allowed to make his own bed simply cos God made him a boy. I challenge anyone to bring me a verse that tells us that girls r supposed to clean and tidy their own bed & boys aren't supposed to. Yet it's frowned upon if you see a husband aiding his wife in daily chorus!
Men actually, based on their traditional silly thoughts, consider daily chorus as a humiliating thing to do, we on the other hand might sometimes do it out of our giving nature to take care of men.
Have you ever met a woman raising her boy to be a gentleman or teach him how it is not bound to women to clean dishes and cook. I actually met a few...not in our society though.
In my humble opinion, the root of the woman cause is the upbringing carried by women themselves. Sadly, "we are our parents", and we are going to repeat the cycle of discrimination over and over again.
I kinda think it's a man's conspiracy to occupy us with the ongoing fight for women rights instead of us focusing on our own improvement and self-proving process.
Through many encounters I do believe that our cause is basically with women upbringing itself & it is related to women not to men, owing to the fact that we do spend more time with children. Women tend to raise their own girls the same way they were brought which is a major mistake. You will always find mothers discriminating between a boy and a girl, for example in the daily chorus, a boy is not allowed to make his own bed simply cos God made him a boy. I challenge anyone to bring me a verse that tells us that girls r supposed to clean and tidy their own bed & boys aren't supposed to. Yet it's frowned upon if you see a husband aiding his wife in daily chorus!
Men actually, based on their traditional silly thoughts, consider daily chorus as a humiliating thing to do, we on the other hand might sometimes do it out of our giving nature to take care of men.
Have you ever met a woman raising her boy to be a gentleman or teach him how it is not bound to women to clean dishes and cook. I actually met a few...not in our society though.
In my humble opinion, the root of the woman cause is the upbringing carried by women themselves. Sadly, "we are our parents", and we are going to repeat the cycle of discrimination over and over again.
Monday, February 08, 2010
The Thin Line
Naiveness and kindness have a very thin line in between. They are very different in essence yet similar when it comes to the action itself. Sometimes we think we are acting based on our kindness then discover it was merely a naive act from our part.
The main problem is we distinguish the difference after it is way too late. You should really be able to identify a person who deserves ur kindness otherwise you are used and manipulated, but it's ur fault for being naive.
So I'm taking lessons for not being naive just like awareness programs and courses. Life never seize to surprise u.
The main problem is we distinguish the difference after it is way too late. You should really be able to identify a person who deserves ur kindness otherwise you are used and manipulated, but it's ur fault for being naive.
So I'm taking lessons for not being naive just like awareness programs and courses. Life never seize to surprise u.
Monday, February 01, 2010
Single & Ready to Mingle
In the spirit of the Valentine's month (which I never had a happy one till now)..I am FINALLY & OFFICIALLY ready to mingle, just to put the word out.
So I'm temporarily available and on my own. I haven't felt happier about being single in my whole entire life I might add.
You will find me enjoying my life's ride with no worries this time cos people can't help loving me & those who does r simply unlucky ;)
So I'm temporarily available and on my own. I haven't felt happier about being single in my whole entire life I might add.
You will find me enjoying my life's ride with no worries this time cos people can't help loving me & those who does r simply unlucky ;)
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